In Greek mythology, as recorded in the Iliad by Homer, Patroclus, or Pátroklos (gr. Πάτροκλος "glory of the father") was Achilles' best friend or lover, son of Menoetius.
Menoetius was a member of the Argonauts in his youth. He had made at least four marriages. All four of his wives were identified as the "mother" of Patroclus in different versions. Which one was mother or step-mother seems uncertain:
Menoetius was a son of Actor , King of Opus in Locris by Aegina. Aegina was a daughter of Asopus and mother of Aeacus by Zeus. Aeacus was father of Peleus, Telamon and Phocus.
Actor was a son of Deion , King of Phocis and Diomede. His paternal grandparents were Aeolus of Thessaly and Enarete. His maternal grandparents were Xuthus and Creusa, daughther of Erechtheus and Praxithea .
Life before the Trojan War
In his youth, Patroclus killed his friend, Clysonymus, during an argument. His father had to escape into exile with Patroclus to escape punishment, and they took shelter at the palace of their kinsman King Peleus of Pthia. There Patroclus apparently first met Peleus' son Achilles. Peleus sent the boys to live in the wilderness and be raised by Chiron, the wise King of the centaurs.
Patroclus was likely somewhat older than Achilles. He is listed among the unsuccesful suitors of Helen of Sparta. Helen instead was given by Tyndareus to Menelaus. All suitors took a most solemn oath to defend the chosen husband against whoever should quarrel with him.
At about that time Patroclus killed Las , founder of a namesake city near Gytheio, Laconia, according to Pausanias the geographer. Pausanias reported that the killing was alternatively attributed to Achilles. However Achilles was not otherwise known to have ever visited Peloponnesos.
Nine years later Helen fled Sparta with Prince Paris of Troy. Menelaus and his brother Agamemnon, King of Mycenae started contemplating war against Troy. The preparations of war and gathering of allies and armies took him ten years according to some versions. But Patroclus was certainly among the men summoned to war. He reportedly offered ten ships of his own. His small force however joined that of his cousin Achilles.
Trojan War activities
Patroclus fought with the Greeks in the Trojan War and killed Sarpedon (a son of Zeus), Kebriones (the chariot driver of Hector), and many other Trojans. When Achilleus refused to fight because of his feud with Agamemnon, Patroclus donned his armor and was killed by Hector and Euphorbos, with help from Apollo.
After retrieving his body, which had been protected on the field by Menelaus and Telamonian Aias, Achilles returned to battle and avenged his friend's or lover's death by killing Hector and desecrated his body behind his chariot instead of allowing the Trojans to honorably dispose of it by burning it. Achilleus' grief was huge and for some time refused to bury Patroclus' body, but he was persuaded to do so by an apparition of Patroclus, who told him he could not enter Hades without a proper cremation. Achilleus cut a lock of his hair and sacrificed horses, dogs, and twelve Trojan captives before placing Patroclus' body on the funeral pyre.
inspired this pottery art of the chariot races at Patroclus's funeral games.
Achilleus then organized an athletic competition to honour his dead friend and/or lover, which included a chariot race (won by Diomedes), boxing (won by Epeios), wrestling (a draw between Telamonian Aias and Odysseus), a foot race (won by Odysseus), a duel (a draw between Aias and Diomedes), a discus throw (won by Polypoites), an archery contest (won by Meriones), and a javelin throw (won by Agamemnon, unopposed). The games are described in Book 23 of the Iliad, one of the earliest references to Greek sport.
Relationship to Achilles
In the Iliad, the relationship between Patroclus and Achilles is a an important part of the story that contributes to the overall theme of the humanization of Achilles after his public humiliation by Agamemnon early in the book. While the Iliad does not explicitly say so, in later Greek writings, such as Plato's
Symposium, the relationship between Patroclus and Achilles is held up as a model of homosexual love. This relationship is generally seen as a starting point for literary scholars working within queer theory.
Burial and later reports
The death of Achilles is given in sources others than the Iliad. His body was given a funeral pyre. His bones were mingled with those of Patroclus so that the two would be companions in death as in life.Their remains were tranferred to Leuke island of the Black Sea. Their souls were reportedly seen wandering the island at times.
A general of Croton identified either as Autoleon or Leonymus reportedly visited Leuke while recovering from wounds received in battle against the Locri Epizefiri. The event placed during or after the 7th century BC. He reported having seen Patroclus in the company of Achilles , Ajax the Lesser, Telamonian Aias, Antilochus and Helen.
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|Bibliography of reconstruction: Homer Iliad, 9.308, 16.2, 11.780, 23.54 (700 BCE); Pindar Olympian Odes, IX (476 BCE); Aeschylus Myrmidons, F135-36 (495 BCE); Euripides Iphigenia in Aulis, (405 BCE); Plato Symposium, 179e (388-367 BCE); Statius Achilleid, 161, 174, 182 (96 CE)